Anonymous asked you: Why don’t most men show their true feelings??

This question is sometimes comedy because I’ve seen it asked by women before and i happened to know the men they were involved with at the time too, so believe me when I say this:

• The FEELING ALOT of the time is: I like her, I’m enjoying the sex, head, VIP treatment etc, and i wanna keep this on lockdown as long as I can <— THE END
• There are no advanced feelings there BUT some women seem to think the man is holding them back when they were never there as he has been SHOWING you all along.
• You MIGHT be a great person but you could just not be that mans TYPE that he can see himself being SERIOUS with. He may like something about your body, character or any random combo of things about you enough to LIKE you and not mind staying around(so in a way, since you have good qualities but are not fully his cup of tea, he has SETTLED for you). And once the physical activities start then DUH he wont want that to stop, especially if its GOOD.
• So if you KEEP complaining or trying to FORCE him to express to you some type of feelings that he just DOESN’T feel then lies get produced to keep you content/shut you up. MAIN GOAL: “I dont wanna lose my source! Do and SAY what it takes to secure it”

EVERY man can/will hopefully find someone he feels is REALLY A GREAT MATCH for him(MUST be at the RIGHT time in his life as well) and he can show them his TRUE feelings with NO PROBLEM: Sometimes THAT woman just ain’t YOU! Stop leaving it to HIS WORD to give you an indication of what to do for yourself next, THE BEHAVIORS DON’T LIE. No matter how hard you are trying or how much you are putting up with….His Dream woman will NEVER be YOU in his eyes/heart, so you just gotta know when to GO.

Actually …….the MORE you put up with THINKING that makes you a “down ass chick” the guys are laughing to see that you are willing to put up with any damn thing they do and start to form the mentality that they KNOW you are NOT goin anywhere so…..the FOOLISHNESS WILL forever continue if women continue to treat 1 average man like he is the only man in the world who can make them happy(When in FACT….you are not even happy though….y’all just share a FEW happy times…..strange paradox). #MarkTheseWordsThough

The Three Different Types of Females

artfashionmusic:

There are only three types of females; Virtuous, Self-contained, and Basic. These break-downs are drawn from my personal opinions and observations, and do not pertain to girls. But more so young women.

VIRTUOUS: The “innocent” one. Prude and typically self-centered, she known as the good girl that plays it safe in life. She’s not the type to smoke, drink, or party heavily. She keeps a low profile and a clean reputation. She runs off her feelings; wearing her heart on her sleeve. She’s either in a long-term relationship, or jumping into relationships back to back…feeling the need to always be with someone. She aims to make deep emotional bonds with the men she dates, because she wants love…to be in love. She absolutely will not give it up unless a relationship has been established.

SELF-CONTAINED: Independent, classy, laid back and “tough as nails”. She is one can hold her own; you’ll never see her break. She is open to relationships, but will not search for one. Being in a relationship is not one of her priorities, she’d rather have her freedom with no strings attached while focusing on her aspirations. She won’t necessarily give it up on the first night, sometimes playing hard to get, but she is more likely to have a sex partner rather than a boyfriend. She will never chase a man or put her feelings into a temporary connection. If she is in a relationship, she will still hold on to her sense of independence. She is a free spirit that takes life as it comes. She knows what she wants, and how to get it on her own; not relying on anyone, let alone a man. Achieving her goals is the most important thing in her life, and she will never let a man jeopardize her success.

BASIC: Aware that she’s meager and unworthy, this type of female will try desperately to make herself appear as an ambitious woman. She yearns to be in a relationship to ‘prove’ that someone actually wants to be with her. She encounters the same problems with different men. Insecure and often promiscuous, she claims to “thinks like a man”, having 2, 3, or more sexual partners at once. But in reality she gets fucked and ducked, because she has nothing else to offer a guy. She heavily associates feelings with sex, because she is unworthy of the relationship. She will think a guy cares about her due to a sexual connection they may have. Thus she is always desperate for that guy, and will do whatever it takes to acquire that time with him. She’s the one a guy will hit up for some late night head or sex after the club, or studio. She falls for common “game”, on account her feeble mind. She’s one to make excuses for a man, allowing herself to be used and disrespected.

(via artfashionmusic-deactivated2011)