-The More the Life you have, the more appealing you are to men! Men desire to be WANTED and lose interest when they feel NEEDED <— PERIOD.

I wouldn’t say IGNORE them, especially if you are interested but it is TRUE, the least you are available, the more interest most guys build for you. Imagine when we meet people we REALLY like, naturally we wanna see them often, hang out and talk often (in some cases every day, multiple times a day). The PROBLEM with this though, there will OFTEN be one person who feels a little more into the other person. Naturally this will give at LEAST one person some feeling of boredom whether they realize it or not. Especially if you are ALWAYS ready to bend to their schedule, always available to talk and always there to hang out. to alot of men, even if they WANT you to be there 24/7, they will start to feel LESS interested deep down inside. something about that CHASE (which is a significant amount of attraction for guys) is now GONE. And when the Chase is gone, things become less interesting, easy to get use to, and then the deadly pattern starts and appreciation may SINK as well.

So this is what i suggest that seems to work fairly well and be the best predictor for longevity and success: Find your own business, Prioritize your own business and KEEP your own business. What this means is, NEVER NEVER NEVER diss your friends and family because you are dating someone. If you make plans with your people, STICK WITH THEM. If you DONT make plans or hang out with your people because you are always waiting to see what that guy wants to do, then just STOP. Whether you are dating, infatuated, or MARRIED, each person still needs their own life, own friends and own business to take care of. 

And when you keep it simple, get back to balancing friend time, family time and boo time then it will all fall into place. Some times you can hang out,  sometimes you cant because you have other plans(there is no crime in saying this to ANYONE) and its healthy if you say this to EVERYONE at some point.

So in a nutshell, dont ignore much, just continue your life and remove the guy from the throne. If you are busy, dont break your neck to reply to that text or return that call, if you are hanging out,  dont break your neck to “check on him”,  in some cases if you are doing NOTHING —> deny an invite to hang out, let him know you have other plans or dont feel like hanging out or talking sometimes (Hey….it WORKS) lol