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IF you under the impression that you should base your instagram enjoyment or self esteem from the number of #LIKES you get….. Just look at this picture, that face… That outfit, those bobos and the # of likes she got and realize ‘she’s hotter than YOU’ bwahahahahaha #TheThirst *Father Forgive Me* I know it’s Sunday. #igdaily #igers #funny #hotmess

IF you under the impression that you should base your instagram enjoyment or self esteem from the number of #LIKES you get….. Just look at this picture, that face… That outfit, those bobos and the # of likes she got and realize ‘she’s hotter than YOU’ bwahahahahaha #TheThirst *Father Forgive Me* I know it’s Sunday. #igdaily #igers #funny #hotmess

A MALE is decided by gender, a BOY is groomed by his parents, a male ADULT is a legal title based on age…. but a MAN can only created by experience (hardships, struggles and the ability to overcome them rather than use as a handicap) #Me #WisdomWednesday #Nigeria #igdaily #photooftheday #Chicago #educated #FkUPayMe

A MALE is decided by gender, a BOY is groomed by his parents, a male ADULT is a legal title based on age…. but a MAN can only created by experience (hardships, struggles and the ability to overcome them rather than use as a handicap) #Me #WisdomWednesday #Nigeria #igdaily #photooftheday #Chicago #educated #FkUPayMe

Time : What Is The REAL Rush?

One of the most essential elements to mankind is TIME…it is irreplaceable, under appreciated and often misunderstood by many. TIME : The element that allows a person to learn, to grow and become wiser. There are plenty of people who fear being single, they can’t imagine themselves functioning without a partner to lean on, no matter how dysfunctional the relationship is.

This causes the phenomenon we refer to as “Acting out of Fear” which leads to acting on things faster than you can actually think about what you are acting on. People jumping from one situation to another to avoid being “lonely” will often get the same results at the end of the day……failure! The difference between using a microwave vs. a conventional oven is EVIDENT (Speed Vs. QUALITY)

I notice people ALWAYS say they’re tired of the getting the same things & same results in life. I challenge you to seriously question yourself: Have I REALLY tried anything NEW to expect different results? Have I moved? Dated outside of my “typical” zone? Attempt to do something totally outside of my box? or did I try and give up too fast because I was uncertain of the path? When you go against the grain of COMFORT, you’ll notice a lot about yourself…. *Drops Mic*

-Keem

Recipe for the “Models” and internet celebs who think they are really famous. Lmaooooo y’all know this is true on social networks! #HappyMemorialDay #comedy #funny #instaGood #me #model #igdaily  (Taken with Instagram)

Recipe for the “Models” and internet celebs who think they are really famous. Lmaooooo y’all know this is true on social networks! #HappyMemorialDay #comedy #funny #instaGood #me #model #igdaily (Taken with Instagram)

Repeated ‘Mistakes’ Only Hurt Us: Reblog If You AGREE

*If u look good + talk a nice game + ask a few questions over the span of a few weeks/months, people would SWEAR they are “ready” for a Relationship with you LOL* 

Silly Rabbits….. *THERE IS NO REPLACEMENT for taking TIME to know a person.* Asking a million questions only accounts for about 40% of what you will need to know about the person(since you reply on them to TELL you their answer which may be true, false or PADDED).

For EVERYONE and ANYONE who struggles with relationship consistency and keeps making the SAME mistakes time and time again….. try something new..TAKE YOUR TIME, i assure you a much healthier and happy relationship when you do form one. Single/Alone/Lonely time is NEEDED and should be appreciated while you have it, let your mind grow and your heart heal. 

P.s. being friends with benefits, and ACTING like you are in a relationship but you both are technically single does not = “I took my time to get to know them…..they are not the person I thought they were…..(insert online rants here_____). Ummm *FAIL*

New Years Resolutions = Determination if you want it

  • 2007 - Truly Realized That Nobody is Responsible for my Success, Failures, Pain or Happiness but ME
  • 2008 - Finished College, Graduated with my B.S
  • 2009 - Started Graduate School
  • 2010 - Finally Understood the concept of Compassion & “Having a Heart’ (Self-Maturation)
  • 2011 - Started to Internalize the concept of compassion and realized….i DO have a heart, Graduated with my Masters of Science, lost about 25lbs and found a job to start my career
  • 2012 - ??? Only one way to go as a result of my determination and desire to better myself…… UP!!
Every year gets better when you TRY to make it better for yourself without giving up when things don’t go your way. My MAIN consistent attribute to making life better is to remove NEGATIVE people from my life as they are recognized(I’d always pick ME over them!) »Consistency is KEY, because without it….you are just another statistic« 
HAPPY NEW YEARS TO YOU ALL!! BE SAFE

Question : Do Ya’ll Believe in people being TOO OLD to be going through the SAME kind of repetitive relationship drama?

I can log onto a social network and see a 16 year old venting about the same thing a 25 year old is venting about when it comes to relationships. 

So I ask you…. after experiencing x amount of relationships as we get older, is there a reason to still be falling into the same traps as if we learned nothing from previous experiences? Is the desire to be wanted or the dislike of being single THAT strong to reset the human memory back to square 1?

10 Things YOU Should Stop Doing To YOURSELF as we go into 2012

10 Things YOU Should Stop Doing To YOURSELF as we go into 2012

1.Stop Spending Time With The Wrong People

2. Stop Running From Your Problems

3. Stop Lying To Your Self

4. Stop Putting Your Own Needs On The Back Burner

5. Stop Trying To Be Someone Your NOT

6. Stop Trying To Hold On To The Past

7. Stop Being Scared To Make A Mistake

8. Stop Slamming Yourself for old mistakes

9. Stop Trying to buy Happiness

10. Stop Exclusively looking to others for happiness

I will bet ya’ll $1000000000000 you will notice at LEAST a 50% boost in happiness and satisfaction in life, try it out…at least TRY

11-11-11 - Happy Veterans Day & GOODMORNING Everyone. I’m about to knock this 12 hour shift out then catch that last showing of the Immortals right after, that movie SHOULD be EPIC!!

Words of Wisdom: Some of ya’ll need to tighten up on LIFE and those “relationships” you are in. With POOR COMMUNICATION And LACK OF TRUST, do you even have a RATIONALE reason for being in a relationship like that? Its all good…you’re hoping they change one of these days huh? FAIL!

A relationship without TRUST is like having an Iphone with no service ……the only thing you can do with it is play games! And after your service has been off for so long and the bill keeps getting higher, all you can do is accept that the situation is out of your reach, switch carriers & START OVER. P.s. The AT&T Iphone WONT work on Sprint’s network……TIME TO LET IT GO!! <—- yeah, read it twice…this YOUR message.

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*Big Sean Ft. Kanye and Roscoe Dash - Marvin Gaye & Chardonnay Video*

One of the best songs on his album.